Preface

Not much different than a diet where one cuts down on eating and increases exercise to try and lose weight or cure an illness has my cessation of web entries been. Partly due to preparation for something that must happen soon and its criticality have I stopped just about every activity except breathing. The experience was an odd unintentional experiment precipitating strongly negative personal experiences of which I will forgo any details. I can say that my efforts to remain silent have only fostered an internal state giving rise to a sense of rotting in my bones; not unlike closing up a room to fresh air and light. It was that I make a note of an observation the was repetitively coming to my attention, not much different than someone one nagging me about a matter until I acted. For me, acting took the form of writing.

After the purchase of a meticulous grammar checker, I have become rudely aware of how many errors in grammar and spelling are on all my pages. For a time I shut down my entire site and thought about republishing it one corrected page after another. However, feeling like someone stranded on a desert island who waits for a ship to pass near enough to hear my causal voice calling for help, I realized how ridiculous this idea was. The message within the pages is more important than the admittedly embarrassing errors. What have I learned about my writing style? It is best for me to keep what I say short and simple and to include as many illustrations as possible. I love English but unfortunately time does not afford me the luxury to make my writing grammatically perfect. I would rather receive directions out of a death trap from someone with poor English and a southern accent than to wait for months and years for someone who can communicate with the King's English.

The essential lesson learned has something to do with being succinct and illustrative. Received a directive that seems to be wonderful, my skepticism and doubt has poised me to verify this as a God given truth and not some flight of fancy. I have no desires to hang around any longer than is natural. The following topic came to mind mush like a life form ending gestation and finally reached birth. The question of virginity actually came from my time of reading the Bible and hearing the prophet Isaiah speaking about the way a man's joy is so great when he marries a virgin.

Though the Bible was written a long time ago, its message and concepts are immutable (which means without change). If a man marries a virgin and he is joyful, I would expect that every man would like to know that the night he first spends with his wife he knows that he it not putting himself in some place where other men have been. If you think about it, who would want to eat off the same dishes other people have eaten from? Now, figuring that most normal people would not find eating off dirty dishes enjoyable, can you take it one step further and consider taking your pork-chops from the potty? I figured that most men would find it more delightful to know no other has trodden the most sacred part of a marriage relationship before him.

My life is America allowed me to be raised in a world where middle school student were made fun of if they had not made it with some girl. This pressure and tendency to be seen as an odd ball and outcast became more intense by high school. So, as an American I was taught that being a virgin was something only weird people are. It was just a common thing that as soon as you are able, you start having sentual relationships as soon as you began to enter puberty. This happened to be ¡°my personal¡± experience, yet as I grew up, I learned that it was a national philosophy.

To avoid making this preface my story, I want to say now, that more than half way through my life, God was going to show me the unbelievable. What was unbelievable? I would go to a country where the Biblical version of virgins was very alive and well. I met and was given eleven years to verify how a society can raise men and women who are not kids but on their way to being thirty years old yet very much virgins. I have put photos of five girls three of whom are obviously assumed to be virgins but the bottom two are were virgins near thirty years old when the photos were taken. They had no objections to my prying to discover how it was possible. Not long after, they pried into my life to discover how it is NOT possible to be a virgin in America?

What is the main driving force behind this page? Just this, I have been in America for two years and have been unable to find fellowship with Christians who believe by the Spirit of God that the Bible concept for virginity is for today just as it was when the Bible was written. Now, to return from an Asian nation where religion is not spoken of in any manner at all and find that the people of Korea actually live out the directives of God's Spirit better than so called American Christians is a shock in a big way. How dare anyone call themselves ¡°Christians¡± who give birth to children and not care if they keep their virginity or not. I write this page as an attempt to search for ¡°True Christians¡± who raise virgin children who are virgins when they get married. With the garbage the churches of this nation are silent about, it's a shame how anyone could walk into a church and walk out and not weep for the condition of their nation is a mystery; yet greater still is the family that goes to church with children who are getting it on regularly as if it the most natural thing in the world. Honestly, I want to go back to the non-religious heathen nation in Asia for people there live God's heart with no desire to turn Christianity into a religion of talk and a religion of books as it is in the west.

Virginity

While in the United States for two years, great efforts to hold to every aspect of the Light in this strange world, have been made. It is now possible to understand that no mistake was made by Korean society as they made extraordinary efforts to arrange daily time for married adults in an effort to establish and maintain relationships in a way that inhibited social actions which could develop an imbalance in healthy natural social dynamics.

To Be Developed